RELATIONSHIPS------>A FASHION STATEMENT???

It all starts well wid fun and excitement..warm hugs n kisses...hours together on the phone and in person wid hands tied together all the time and alll excitation fails to b suspended...always have the heart beatin up for that person..jus cant stand missin that PERSON...all these goes on for a while and then once things start gettin serious y is it that all thoughts come in all of a sudden???are relationships meant jus for fun so that the serious part can b thrown out to enjoy life or is it about mere commitment n long term relationships??????its pretty hard to make out actually...THE BEST AND TESTIN PART OF A RELATIONSHIP IS TO STAY STRONG EVEN AFTER THE EXCITATION PART FADES.......

THERE ARE CERTAIN PPL WHO JUS CANT STAND BEIN ALONE .and it is those who get badly affected by failed relationships...relationships arent somethin that should change hands n hearts often!!!its somethin abt bein together all time and acceptin each other for what they exactly are..but the irony of this is that when two people get into a relationship THEY ACTUALLY LOSE THE PERSONS FOR WHOM THEY FELL FOR.....expectations ----->the first enemy..expectations are never wrong but then u fell for a person knowin him/her completely then y the hell expect somthin that u cant get and spoil the beautiful thing between the two?????isnt it all about understandings and adjustments????y cant the person jus b the same foreve??????

when it comes to the indian society its "THE COURAGE FACTOR" that is exactly needed to win over in a relationship....family issues ,social circumstances,all come into the place and jus rot the two hearts....FIRST QUESTION----->Y THE HELL AT ALL GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN U DON HAVE THE COURAGE TO FACE THINGS??????wen u hav the heart n life to enjoy all pleasure given by the other person y cant they jus take up those pressures bounded on them??????

Walkin away from a relationship just because it doesn work out or losing the feel u hav for the other person is totally fine and acceptable but these issues of social circumstances are totally pissin.....well then from the scratch if a relationship is termed to b AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP then it would all be fine and no one ever gets hurt..all pleasures enjoyed without any pressure..but Y TAG THE RELATIONSHIP TO B A SERIOUS ONE AND THEN WALK OUT OF IT DUE TO SOCIAL OR FAMILY CIRCUMSTANCES?????....den what about all those promises made and thoughts and intimacy shared????if u can get that from another person after sharin yourself with someone else before, then what should dat be termed???????

RELATIONSHIPS arent a fashion statement nor are they a need.It has to happen by its own..and one thin which really pisses me off is that RELATIONSHIP STATUS ----->ITS COMPLICATED...bloody hell if ppl have brains when they know its complicated then y the hell stay in complications?????sounds totally stupid...

Next part is dat there are a few more who are in a relationship or a committment when its not totally workin out, jus because of the sole reason--------->the fear to get over it...to look up at life without that person...but den ppl don realise its a real cake walk and its ones happiness that matters the most than any other thing ...... the best thing that can happen for a person is to WALK AWAY FROM THE PEOPLE WHO DON REALLY STAND FOR YOU...do it and WALK AWAY WID ALL PRIDE GIVIN A DAM FOR THE OTHER PERSON.......

But then there are loads of couples and everlasting relationships who respect what they have for each other n still goin strong...hats off to those ppl...

EITHER Be SINGLE or Be IN A REAL STRONG RELATIONHIP or FOOL ROUND IN THE NAME OF AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP..NEVER EVER MAKE FALSE PROMISES AND CUT DOWN ON THE HAPPINESS OF ANOTHER SOUL...

"THE ULTIMATE TEST OF A RELATIONSHIP IS TO DISAGREE BUT TO HOLD HANDS"

its important that even if no one is around to take care or be wid you,we must still manage to be happy ...if dats the case" MAN LIFE S IN YOUR HANDS"..."RULE THE WORLD AND MAKE IT YOURS".. each n every soul would want you then..

""""LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR TURNING BACK AND REGRETTING FOR ALL THOSE THINGS THAT HAVE GONE WORNG..NEVER REGRET.IF ITS GOOD THEN ITS WONDERFUL ,BUT THEN IF ITS BAD,ITS AN EXPERIENCE""""

WID luv....MANEY